Let's make it equal...!

            Beautiful relation, so much of love and the wonderful outings. Why we want such Bollywood romance to hit in our life?  
            Like we all need someone like,
"Neele Neele Ambar par, Chand jab aae,
Pyaar barsae, hamko tarsae,
Aisa koi saathi ho, Aisa koi premi ho,
Pyaas dilki buja jae~"
Which is cute, lovely and adorable too. Any relation does demand beautiful meets always, gifts too on special occasions and many dates. Now it's a myth that whatever expenses or gifts are done or given in a relationship should always be by a guy and it has become too popular as it's been running for years. But why always guys should do the needful?
             Any and every meet is decided and planned by both the partners so why a guy is always expected to pay or do something special for her? Being a girl, I can say that a date can also be planned by the girl and she can take the guy out too. When it's said that both the gender should get equal importance and fair equality in every aspect, then why not apply it here too? Yes, it's awkward for people when it comes to who will pay for things but it's normal as sharing money on things they love will make them enjoy their date much more than being in any awkwardness.

            Another perspective of many boys and men are like it's their duty to pay or give surprises to their better half which is nice and gentle but then won't you like your girl being independent and spend on what she and you both like? Let her too take some efforts to show up that even she genuinely cares and wants the relationship to grow. It's never about ego problem or degradation but making the relationship stronger from both the end is always bonzer. Many males even think that girls will get impressed by all such stuff but they are wrong as the true ones will appreciate your love and small efforts like caring for her, respecting her, writing love letters, being original and loyal towards her more than any expenses u do for her.
            Although society is changing and modern terms are adapted so yes, girls too proposes guys, take them out, spend their money and do give great surprises, which is a good change but then this article is for the people who are still the same..! Sorry but equality is needed everywhere every time..! And both should understand and implies this.